The art of styling pillows is more than just interior design; it’s a thoughtful mix of color theory, pattern play, rich textures, and just the right amount of symmetry. With the right combination, your sofa or bed can transform from a simple piece of furniture into a visual focal point inviting conversation, comfort, and relaxation.
As an interior designer, pillows are one of my favorite ways to completely change the feeling of a space. I use them to transition between seasons, soften a room, or give a tired space a new identity without a full overhaul. I may be biased -pillows are kind of my thing- but it still amazes me how something so simple can make such a dramatic difference. The options truly are endless. Pattern, texture, size, color, trims, and even personalization… it’s fun, but I also know it can feel overwhelming if you’re not sure where to start.
After more than 15 years in design, I’ve learned what works and what doesn’t, and I’ve seen the same questions asked over and over again. So, I’m sharing some of our most-used designer secrets to help you select pillow combinations that feel intentional and pulled-together in any space: living rooms, bedrooms, dining benches, entryway chairs anywhere you want a designer touch.
How to Style Throw Pillows on a Sofa
When it comes to styling pillows on a sofa, there are a few designer-approved steps that make the process easier and the end result look intentional and elevated.
Start on the ends
Begin with your largest pillows first. For a standard sofa, we recommend 20"x20" pillow covers with 22" inserts placed on each end.
If you have a sectional or oversized sofa, bump up one size to 22"x22" covers with 24" inserts for a fuller, more luxurious look.
Whether you choose to match the two ends or mix patterns for a more curated, collected feel — there are truly no hard rules. Choose what looks and feels right for your home.
Layer up with smaller pillows
Next, add a second layer by incorporating 18"x18" pillows. These smaller sizes help build depth and create that layered designer look. This is where mixing patterns, florals, stripes, textures, and solids becomes fun — this combination is what gives your sofa personality.
Add an accent shape
To finish the look, bring in a rectangular lumbar pillow. A different shape instantly adds dimension and interest. We typically style a lumbar on one end of the sofa if it’s average in length, or use a long lumbar in the center on a larger couch to anchor the arrangement.
The Three Most Asked Questions About Styling Sofa Pillows
If you’re feeling overwhelmed or don’t know where to start, these are the three questions we hear more than anything when it comes to styling throw pillows on a couch:
How many pillows do I need for a sofa?
What pillow sizes look best on a couch?
How should I arrange my throw pillows for a designer look?
Below, you’ll find diagrams that walk you through each of these step-by-step so you can style with confidence and truly feel like a pillow pro.
How to Style Throw Pillows on a Queen Bed
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How to Style Pillows on a Queen Bed
Sleeping pillows are the foundation of any beautifully made queen bed. Yes they’re essential for sleeping, but they also give your decorative throw pillows something to lean on so your arrangement looks full, layered, and intentional.
Start by laying your sleeping pillows flat against the headboard, either vertically or horizontally. Both work — it’s truly a preference thing — but what matters is using the correct size. A standard queen sleeping pillow is 20"x30", which fits the 60" width of a queen bed perfectly. Instead of using standard or king pillows, choose queens so your base layer is proportionate.
If your pillows are on the thinner side, don’t be afraid to stack two for a little extra height and structure. This creates a stronger visual base for your decorative pillows to sit in front of.
Decorative Throw Pillows for a Queen Bed
Now to the fun part: the decorative pillows. This is where personality and style come in. When choosing your throw pillows, the main things to consider are:
quantity, color, size, solids, pattern, and texture.
Start with a Color Story
Before picking patterns, decide on a palette. The easiest way is to pull 3–4 colors from elements already in the room, a rug, curtains, bedding, wall color, or a piece of art. This gives you a cohesive starting point, even if the pillows themselves are all different styles.
Mix and Match Like a Designer
Once you have your color direction, begin mixing in styles and fabrics. The biggest mistake people make is trying to match everything perfectly. That’s exactly what makes a bed look “store bought” instead of layered and curated.
We love using handmade and block print pillows where every piece has slight variations. The dyes, the aging, the imperfect printing those are the details that add charm and character. Real designer spaces rarely look like identical sets.
To mix and match successfully, follow this simple formula:
SOLID + TEXTURE + PATTERN
Build each row from one of these three categories:
• Solid:
A grounding piece in a single color that ties back to the room palette
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Texture: Velvet, linen, boucle, woven cotton, slubbed fabrics — these add depth without introducing new pattern
• Pattern:
Florals, stripes, block prints, geometrics — this is where the personality really comes in
You can replace a “texture” with a small-scale pattern if you prefer, if you balance it with a larger-scale pattern somewhere else.
Layering your queen bed using this simple approach will leave you with a pillow arrangement that feels balanced, elevated, and thoughtfully designed without ever
looking too “perfect” or predictable.
How Many Pillows Should Be on a Queen Bed?
There really are no strict rules when it comes to how many pillows you must use, but if you want a guideline that always looks good, aim for four to six pillows on a queen bed. This range keeps things visually balanced without feeling crowded, and it is still comfortable when you are lounging in bed.
Best Throw Pillow Sizes for a Queen Bed
When choosing throw pillows, the scale matters just as much as the style. Here are the most common pillow sizes that work beautifully on a queen bed:
Lumbar Pillows
12 x 20 inches
16 x 26 inches
14 x 36 inches
Square Pillows
24 x 24 inches
22 x 22 inches
20 x 20 inches
18 x 18 inches
These sizes pair well together and give you plenty of flexibility when building a layered designer look.
Now that you know how many pillows to use and which sizes work best on a queen bed, the next step is arranging them. In the diagram below, we will walk through different pillow layouts so you can style confidently and recreate the look on your own bed.
From handcrafted block prints to designer pillows from Laurel and Blush, the right pieces can instantly elevate your bed and make the entire room feel intentional and finished. Our hope is that these tips help take the stress and guesswork out of styling and make it something you actually enjoy.
And if you would rather skip the trial and error, our team of designers is always happy to create a custom pillow combination for you, perfectly tailored to your home, your colors, and your style.
